Congratulations — you’ve been invited to a bar mitzvah! But if you’ve never been to one, you may not know what to wear or bring. You could always ask whoever invited you, and that’s probably the best place to start if you don’t want to illustrate a lack of knowledge.
In fact, knowing what you’re getting into can prepare you for the ceremony as well as the night of festivities, and when you’re prepared you’re sure to have a great time even if you’ve never attended a Jewish service in synagogue before.
That said, service length and the activities undertaken during a bar mitzvah ceremony are highly dependent on denomination and the congregation itself, as well as its leadership and their unique customs and traditions. For the big picture, you’ll want to reach out to your host. They’ll be able to tell you what you should expect and what you should bring, including any bar mitzvah ceremony clothes you’ll need or how to behave during the ceremony itself.
However, keep in mind that most bar mitzvah services will take place during Shabbat morning services at synagogue, or alternately on Friday night or Saturday afternoon. Following the ceremony, it’s also common for families to host private parties that further celebrate and mark the occasion.
Depending on your invitation, you could be invited to the bar mitzvah ceremony, the party, or both. If you’re expected to attend the bar mitzvah ceremony, it typically includes attending Shabbat service. Both family and guests are expected to arrive at the beginning when service starts, even though the specific bar mitzvah ceremony may not take place until the end of service. Many congregants may arrive later in the service, but if you don’t want to call attention to yourself it’s best to arrive early.
As for what you should wear, bar mitzvah ceremony clothes are typically dressy. For men, slacks and a jacket with tie are ideal, or you can wear a suit if you’d prefer. For women, a dress or formal pantsuit is recommended, though be sure that you’re not wearing anything too revealing. Dresses should go below the knee and bare arms should be avoided, though it’s nothing that a cardigan or sweater couldn’t fix.
In more traditional communities, women may wear hats and may be discouraged from wearing pants, so be sure to plan accordingly.
The prayer shawl or tallit is a common sight at bar mitzvah ceremonies, and it’s also an important piece of bar mitzvah ceremony clothing. Traditionally worn by Jewish males, though some women in liberal congregations may wear one as well, the tallit has four braided fringes that remind wearers of the commandments of Judaism. As a non-observer, you won’t have to wear a tallit of your own, but you may be offered one at the door. Just decline it if that’s the case.
Another common piece of bar mitzvah ceremony clothing is the kippah, also called a yarmulke in Yiddish. It’s essentially a head covering worn by Jewish males (and some Jewish females in certain congregations) during the service and during other religious activities. But unlike the tallit, it’s not really a religious signifier. Like the requirement to remove a cap in church or remove shoes before entering a mosque, the kippah is a non-denominational sign of respect. In most instances, there will be a basket of kippahs at the entrance that you can take to wear during the ceremony, though you may even be given your own honorary kippah as a memento.
During the bar mitzvah ceremony, you’ll also be expected to maintain sanctity, just as you’d do in a church or other place of worship. That means turning your cell phone off or setting it to vibrate before you enter. While it can be tempting to take pictures, don’t. Traditionally, the taking of pictures is forbidden on the Shabbat, and the family may want to have their own photographer to commemorate the occasion. If you’d like a picture taken, just ask.
While you’re on the synagogue grounds, please refrain from smoking both indoors and outside, and you’ll also want to avoid any writing activities, which are forbidden on the Shabbat. It’s a good idea to keep your mouth shut during services lest you inadvertently speak when you shouldn’t; you might see other guests speaking and chatting, but as a guest you won’t want to draw attention to yourself.
In addition to various activities, you may also witness a lot of sitting and standing. It depends on the prayers that are called, but if you feel up to it you can join in on the sitting and standing by taking your cues from those around you. The standing and sitting doesn’t denote any sort of religious activity, so don’t worry about inadvertently doing the wrong thing. Joining in is actually a sign of respect, but be careful not to engage in any bows — those are religious acts.
While you won’t have to worry about the proper bar mitzvah ceremony clothes during the ceremony — that’s mainly for the bar mitzvah boy and other religious leaders — you are encouraged to follow along in the prayerbook. There’s the siddur and the chumash, which stand for the prayerbook and the bible, respectively. Luckily, they’re commonly printed in both Hebrew and English so that you can follow along.
If you lose your place, just ask a neighbor for help. You won’t want to disrupt someone that’s in the middle of a prayer, but even regular congregants can lend you a helping hand if needed. During Torah service, everyone is encouraged to join in to read the Torah in English or Hebrew.
After the bar mitzvah ceremony, clothes may change and things may take a decidedly stark turn. That’s because it’s time for the bar mitzvah party where everyone is invited to dance, sing and otherwise have a great time. You won’t want to experiment too much with your dress, but the bar mitzvah party is a decidedly more carefree time where you can mingle with other guests and enjoy yourself.
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Whether you’re a traditionalist or you’re looking to throw a modern blowout party for your daughter’s quinceañera, odds are at some point you and everyone else will end up in a large banquet hall. Some call them quinceañera halls, but it’s basically a large hall that can accommodate you, the guest of honor and hundreds of their closest friends and family.
But a hall is just a hall without the proper decor and arrangements to help guide the day’s festivities.
That means in addition to the hall or venue itself, you’ll also need to think about decorations, seating charts and other important items. A bad decision here could threaten the feel of the event itself, and there are a lot of decisions to be made and an entire guest list to consider before you book that quinceañera hall and you start filling it with anything and everything you can think of.
Some venues are not much more than four walls and a large floor, meaning that if you want tables, a dance floor and a DJ, you’ll have to pick from their approved list of vendors or assemble your own team. Other venues may not be venues at all, such as with a quinceañera salon rental or some other fun experience before everyone heads over for the party. But unless you want to spend the day working when you could be interacting with your guests and soaking up the memories, you might be better off with a venue that packages everything together so you and your family can enjoy the day without worrying about all the little details.
Regardless of where you book, however, it’s the decor that really sets the stage, and the right placements and settings can elevate the ambiance and feel of just about any venue. Here are some basic things to keep in mind when thinking about decorating a quinceañera hall.
Round Table Decorating
Unlike rectangular tables that may be preferable inside restaurants and homes, large events really benefit from the elegance of round tables. Not only will everyone at your tables feel involved, it’s just easier to place round tables in a quinceañera hall without getting caught up in the geometry and straight lines of rectangular tables. Round tables are also great for holding beautiful centerpieces and squeezing in an extra chair in a pinch, and it makes it easier for guests to navigate from table to table without establishing unsightly aisles.
Other considerations for round tables includes arranging centerpieces in threes (to avoid awkward bunching), resisting the urge to bring in too much white (boring without color and accents), experimenting with non-standard plates and settings (to break up the feeling of too many circles) and utilizing strong patterns (such as floral designs, stripes or polka dots).
Rectangular Table Decorating
What is a quinceañera without round tables? Well, it might just be the ticket to a unique experience. While rectangular tables wouldn’t be your first choice inside a quinceañera hall, if you’re planning an outdoor quinceañera, a handful of long banquet tables can add an interesting little touch to the day’s festivities. But make sure you set up your tables at angles to prevent aisles from forming — straight lines might sound good, but in practice it might feel too much like a school cafeteria than a cause for celebration.
If you have your heart set on rectangular tables, make sure to introduce circles elsewhere, such as with the centerpieces and place settings. If nothing else, circular lights or paper lanterns can add a touch of elegance to any large room. Rectangular tables also benefit from bold colors, such as with chairs or plates, and you’ll also want to ensure that each table has an even number of settings and seats on each side. Another important consideration is floor-length linens, which can make a quinceañera hall look the part instead of coming off like some casual birthday party.
Balance Is the Key
For quinceañera halls that are vast and tall with high ceilings and ornamentation to match, you won’t want to bring in tiny tables and small centerpieces. They’ll look comically small and won’t stand out in such a large space, and you’ll probably want to bump up the size of your tables — or even go with longer, rectangular tables that can soak up some of the atmosphere. After all, you’ll want to balance the impressiveness of the hall with the festivities themselves.
If you have a gorgeous hall and subpar tables and chairs, you’ll have your work cut out for you. Vibrant linens and chair coverings can call more attention to where everyone is seated, and oversized centerpieces or table runners can also help elevate ho-hum seating. To make a real splash, try sparkles, chevron print or stripes, or go with bold colored napkins or seat covers to drum up interest.
Don’t Forget the Details
While it can be easy to get carried away on things like tables, silverware and linens, it’s important not to forget the details. Once everyone enters and grabs their seat, they’ll get a close-up look at the centerpieces, dishware and silverware, as well as the reception menu and party favors you’ve selected. Sure, not all quinceañeras will knock it out on these important details, but the memorable ones do.
With the right approach, you’ll be communicating to your guests that this is an important and special occasion. Things like handwritten notes, DIY menus or even a schedule of the day’s festivities will tell your guests what to expect and make for more seamless transitions into each stage as the night unfolds.
Table numbers may be a new trend, but quinceañera culture is quickly adopting this helpful tradition borrowed from weddings. Not only will it help your guests find the right table, but it’ll also allow you to organize seating based on your criteria, not the whims of guests as they arrive. By blocking pairings or groups that could instigate drama, you’re keeping more of the focus on the guest of honor.
Centerpieces Can Make or Break It All
It’s one of those quinceañera facts that every decorator knows — the table centerpiece can make or break the entire room’s decor. They can singlehandedly make it easier or more difficult for guests to communicate (via high or low centerpieces), or they can accent colors and other central elements of the overall theme.
But centerpieces don’t have to be overly complicated or even expensive. Mason jars and cheaper flowers such as daisies and chrysanthemums won’t break the bank, and you could also decide to use more fillers such as dry branches or larger blooms to help keep costs down. All it takes is an interesting container and a few fresh flowers to add a touch of elegance and style to any table, though you’ll want to avoid smaller centerpieces on larger tables and vice versa.
As for candles, make sure you go big. Smaller candles such as tea lights will make it seem like an evening dinner at the local restaurant, though you may want to stay away from open flames with a bunch of teenagers and siblings running around.
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A quinceañera is full of traditions, including music, dancing and the presentation of gifts. It also marks a rite of passage from childhood into young womanhood, and it can be one of the most meaningful days in a young girl’s life, as well as cause for celebration for the entire family.
But a quinceañera doesn’t have to be some boring, stuffy affair. Many quinceañera themes and ideas can satisfy the desires of family as well as make for a night of fun for the kids, and it doesn’t even have to cost you an arm and a leg. All it takes is a bit of planning and foresight, and maybe the expert opinion or help of an event planner or a venue that knows what they’re doing.
For the guest of honor and her family, quinceañera traditions shouldn’t include stress or worry, but that’s easier said than done when there’s a big party to be planned. However, if you take your time and discuss your desires with your chosen venue, the only thing you’ll have to worry about is how much fun everyone’s having.
That’s because the decor can completely change the feel of any room, no matter the type of events that typically take place there. Weddings, private events and other coming of age celebrations are all often held in similar venues and halls, but it’s the decor, theme and ideas that really makes a space work for a given event. With a few bold decisions, you can completely revamp how a space feels while still giving a space for the venue itself to shine.
Without further ado, here are five ideas that you can use to break with or reaffirm quinceañera traditions.
Before you decide on the food, music or your guest list, you’ll want to pick a quinceañera theme or color scheme. This will govern all future decisions such as place settings and other decorations, so it’s important to finalize this piece before lining up anything else.
If your daughter loves pastels and hates bold, vibrant colors, you’ll want to discuss that with your venue. And if a more traditional approach is preferred over, say, a modern lightshow and a heavy reliance on technology and music, it’s better that you decide and discuss these considerations before you start planning the guest list.
To add that personal touch, you might want to match the decor to your daughter’s dress or go all out with a bold black and white or gold and silver theme that is always timeless and elegant.
While weddings and other large events are mostly limited by the great weather and picturesque sunsets of late summer, quinceañera traditions are truly year-round. After all, there are birthdays throughout every month of the year, and you may only have a week or two of leeway before the date becomes an issue.
If your daughter’s quinceañera takes place in the winter, it may not be the best idea to go with summery colors and flowers. Instead, try a winter wonderland in white with icy blues and vibrant silvers, and maybe even an ice sculpture or soft, white lights to set the stage. Fall quinceañeras can go with colorful reds, browns and greens, leaving the light and breezy tones to those spring and summer birthdays.
One quinceañera tradition we’re sure of is that you’ll want to have food for your guests. But just because it’ll be eaten doesn’t mean that the food you serve can’t also help set the ambience and feel of the room. A buffet is a great way to put beautiful and yummy food on display, and it also makes for a great interaction space as guests get up and gather to fill their plates.
But you don’t have to stick with quinceañera traditions and only serve the usual suspects. What about a colorful candy buffet or a clever make-your-own-food station to add a little bit of fun and to challenge expectations. Cakes and other desserts are also as pretty and vibrant as they are delicious, and who can say no to some yummy desserts.
Even if your quinceañera will be taking place outside of the holiday season, that’s no reason to forego the holiday lights. Strung from the ceiling or outside above a gathering spot, holiday lights add a sense of wonder to just about any event or gathering. But don’t stop there. Various outdoor lights, torches and other illuminating sparks can completely transform any room — or create a wondrous reveal halfway through the festivities.
By turning off the house lights and turning on other lights, you can completely change the mood of a quinceañera, which is great when it’s time to head to the dance floor or to call extra attention to a grand entrance or exit. On a budget, go with stringed lights, icicle lights or paper lanterns, or go all out with a vibrant laser light show to really kick things up a notch.
Your daughter and her friends might spend all day on their phones, snapping pictures and interacting on social media. But you’d be surprised at how much interest there is with a modern take on photo booths — complete with a printer, backdrop and props. That’s because while a quick picture can be taken on any day, there’s still something to be said for the wonder and rarity of an immediate print-out.
A photo booth also creates a focal point for the decor and the day’s festivities, whereby everyone can have fun with props and an interesting backdrop to their shenanigans. But the fun doesn’t have to stop there. In fact, if you’ve done your job right you’ll notice those that have no intention of using the photo booth itself snapping pics of the fun from across the room, and that’s an activity that anyone can enjoy.
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A quinceañera is a traditional rite of passage for young women as they transition from childhood into womanhood. But unlike quinceañeras of the past, most quinceañeras today don’t take place in a church, they’re held in venue halls and ballrooms across the U.S. and Mexico. That puts even more significance on the all-important reception venue, which sets the stage for the festivities — and it’s also where many of the day’s memories will be made.
So when it comes to quinceañera venues in Nevada, it’s important to choose wisely. The wrong venue could be too small for your guest list, or it could saddle you and your family with tons of responsibilities on the big day if the venue lacks in-house capabilities. On the other hand, the best venues will take care of it all, from entertainment to catering and a spacious, large dance floor.
If you’re not sure on things like seating arrangements and decor, the best venues come with teams that handle the heavy lifting — all you have to do is sign off. Instead of spending months planning and worrying about all the particularities, a great quinceañera venue in Nevada can take care of it all for you with quinceañera venue packages that include everything you could possibly need on the big day. If you’re a more hands-on type of person, most venues welcome that, too, and you’re free to have as much or as little involvement as your busy schedule allows.
When you’re shopping for a quinceañera venue in Nevada, here’s what you should look for.
No matter if you’ve found the most perfect venue in the world, if it’s a small and cozy room and you’re expecting hundreds to show up, it’s not going to work. Instead, go with a venue that can accommodate your guest list. That means before you go shopping for a venue, you need to finalize that guest list. Some people are fine with a more intimate setting of just close friends and family, while others are looking forward to a big blowout on the big day. But suffice it to say that you’ll need to know what kind of quinceañera you’re having before all the planning starts.
While traditional quinceañeras often take place in a church, if your daughter or family hasn’t set foot in one for years, everyone might be more comfortable in a more relaxed quinceañera venue in Nevada. But relaxed doesn’t have to mean something run-down or lackluster. Modern venues can be just as inspiring and beautiful as a church, but without all the stuffiness and rigidity. Many venues also have various decor and entertainment options that you won’t get at a local house of worship, so make sure that the venue you choose speaks to your family’s style and palette. After all, everyone will be spending the better part of a day there, so it’s important that the venue works for you and your family.
Some families have a specific person in mind as an officiant, be it a priest, pastor or an ordained family friend. If you’re considering a local church, the officiant may even come with the venue, negating any other choice. For everyone else, you have options. Some like the familiarity of a family friend or a trusted community leader, while others would just rather the venue handle it all, providing a master of ceremonies so that the entire family can enjoy themselves. Either is a viable option, and most venues are flexible enough to accommodate your desires, whatever you choose.
The average quinceañera typically sees dozens, if not hundreds, of guests. But if you’re looking for places to host a quinceañera and you go with a venue in an obscure place, your guests may have trouble finding it — or they may show up late if your reception and quinceañera ceremony are on opposite sides of town. The easiest thing is to hold both in the same place, or to ditch the ceremony and get right to the party. It’s all up to you, but the easier it is on your guests the more likely it is that everyone will have a more memorable day.
Quinceañeras are becoming more popular with each passing year. But it’s not like new venues are being created every day, and there’s also weddings, anniversaries, private events, prom parties and other coming-of-age parties that are all fighting for the same venue space. While your daughter only turns 15 once, that doesn’t mean you have to be locked in to one day. You’ll also need to accommodate your guests, but a cheaper Friday or Sunday could be a great alternative to those competitive Saturdays. With just a little flexibility, you may be able to lock down the perfect venue and save some money just by shifting the day around.
While it’s most common with churches, some quinceañera venues in Nevada have a strict and enforced dress code such as no bare shoulders or other rules that prevent you from altering the decor or when the music and dancing can start. Others may leave it up to you to enforce the rules. That sounds great until you realize that security could end up being a full-time job and it’ll leave you no free time to enjoy the day’s festivities. The good news is that an increasing number of venues have their own security, and they’ll enforce whatever rules you want. That’ll let you roam and enjoy the party without feeling like you’ve got a job to do, and the extra pictures you can take and the memories you’ll build are nothing short of priceless.
Sure, there’s a lot you can do with decor to make a venue feel like a real party. Some quinceañera venues in Nevada may only need finishing touches, while others may require a large and concerted effort to look the part. But no matter how much goes into the decor, if it doesn’t match your taste, all the decorations in the world won’t turn a lackluster venue into an ideal ballroom for a quinceañera. A better venue will have the right decor, as well as various decor options for you to choose from to help set the scene for the big day. Even before you decide to tour a venue, it’s best to get an idea of the venue’s decor capabilities. Unless you’re bringing in your own decor, it’ll help save time by only looking at venues that are the right fit.
A perfect venue is only as perfect as the budget you’ve set aside, though there are some things that you can do to stretch your budget. Instead of blowing your budget on the ideal space, leaving nothing for decor and entertainment, if you’re under a tight budget it’s best to go with a venue that bundles its services. By booking a venue that does it all, you’ll get a location, an event coordinator, a caterer and entertainment, as well as everything you’ll need to throw the party of your daughter’s dreams. That can help save a significant amount of money over pricing everything out separately, and you’ll still have the issue of getting everyone to seamlessly work together.
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Mazel tov! You’ve been invited to bat mitzvahs by a family member or friend. But if you’ve never been to a bat mitzvah ceremony, you may be worried about everything from the right attire to what kind of gift you should bring. Being prepared will make for a better experience as well as being a better guest, so keep reading to find out more about this coming of age celebration.
However, it’s important to note that not every bat mitzvah ceremony is the same. Depending on the denomination — such as Orthodox, Conservative, Reform or others, as well as the specific synagogue’s leadership and customs — services can differ widely. To help you answer some of these questions, lookup the synagogue’s website online to see if they have any additional information. You can also contact the host or whoever invited you for a quick review, but here’s what you should generally expect.
Most bat mitzvah ceremonies actually occur during Shabbat services at synagogue. Others take place on Friday night or Saturday afternoon at synagogue, while some ceremonies are held at a different, private venue altogether. Your invitation will tell you where and when you’re expected, and if in doubt you’ll want to confirm that you’ve been invited to a bat mitzvah ceremony, not a bat mitzvah party, which is what usually follows the ceremony.
Guests of a bat mitzvah ceremony are expected to dress up for the event. For men, this means a suit or slacks, tie and jacket, while women should wear a dress or formal pantsuit. A more traditional ceremony may require hats or prohibit pants for women, so please check with the host if you have any questions.
While your invitation likely has a start time, bat mitzvah ceremony length varies. The start time usually corresponds with the official start for the weekly Shabbat (Sabbath) service. Family is expected to arrive at the beginning, but many guests and congregants will show up later, even after services have begun. No matter when you arrive, it’s customary to stay until the end, and to continue on to the after-party if you’ve been invited.
Only Jewish males are required to wear a tallit or prayer shawl at a bat mitzvah ceremony, though certain liberal congregations also require Jewish women to wear one as well. If you don’t practice Judaism you won’t need to know the religious significance, but the tallit is a religious artifact and reminder of the commandments of the Jewish faith. Upon entering synagogue, you may be offered a tallit to wear, but if you feel uncomfortable wearing it you can easily decline.
Whether you call it a kippah or yarmulke (a Yiddish word for head covering), this Jewish head covering is traditionally worn by men during the service, and also by women in more liberal synagogues. Unlike the tallit, it’s not a religious symbol as such, but it instead demonstrates respect to God and to the synagogue. Like removing your hat in church or removing your shoes before entering a mosque, the kippah is a non-denominational sign of respect. Depending on the synagogue, some women will wear hats or a lace head covering, while others may have no specific convention for women. Some bat mitzvah’s will even have custom-made kippahs made for their guests, which is a kind of memento or party favor for you to take with you.
Like other religious services, it’s important to be respectful during the entire bat mitzvah ceremony and program. Cell phones and other devices should be turned off, and pictures should not be taken. No smoking should occur inside or outside the building, including the entire synagogue grounds. No writing should take place, and during the service you should refrain from speaking or engaging in conversation. While you may notice others breaking some of these rules, as a guest you don’t want to breach decorum, so wait to engage in any prohibited activities until you’ve left.
While religious services aren’t typically known for their athletic activities, a bat mitzvah ceremony can be filled with frequent sitting and standing. To the uninitiated, it can feel like you’ll never be able to follow along, but it’s easy if you take your cues from the rabbi or the rest of the congregation. Certain bows and other activities may also make an appearance, but because bowing and other activities can be religious acts, you may feel more comfortable standing or sitting during these times.
Even if you feel completely lost, it can help to follow along in the siddur (prayerbook) or Chumash (Bible) while the bat mitzvah ceremony is underway. Half of the literature is in Hebrew while the other half is in English, which, if nothing else, gives you something to read if the service hits a slow point. Guests are also encouraged to participate in group singing and activities, but don’t feel pressured into doing so.
While it’s possible to go through an entire bat mitzvah ceremony and still not understand what you’re witnessing, it’s easy if you understand the meaning of a bat mitzvah. Literally, bat mitzvah means “daughter of the commandments,” but it really points to a coming of age ceremony that marks the child’s responsibilities as their own person in the eyes of God and the Jewish community. No longer are they the ward of their parents, but an individual that has the power to make their own choices and to be judged by their decisions.
Following the bat mitzvah ceremony, a kiddush or light meal typically follows in a social hall or separate space on the grounds. Another separate party often directly follows the service or takes place later in the evening after sundown since Traditional Jews are not permitted to drive or play music on Shabbat. These parties are typically in much larger venues and may have little to do with the ceremony earlier in the day, but they can be even more important to the birthday girl and her time with friends and a fun night of dancing and other activities such as the chair-hoist and chorus singing you’re likely familiar with.
If you’re attending a bat mitzvah ceremony or after party, it’s customary to bring a gift to the guest of honor. But instead of lugging yours into the synagogue, keep your gift giving to the reception or party where it can be placed on a table with all the other gifts. Your gift should be wrapped with a card or label to signify who it’s from, but after that, all bets are off. That said, consider your audience and the familial nature of the celebration and you’ll have no problem identifying the right gift for the special lady.
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